Meet Alicia, 26, from Starkville, MS

This is Alicia’s first post in our Customer Blogger series. Over the upcoming months, we’ll be following Matt, Alicia, Nancy, T.J., Susan and Alison on their savings adventures.

alicia_modAlicia
Starkville, MS
Age 26

Bio: I’m a college graduate with no debt! I took an office job to pay off my student loans and have been slowly saving for no particular goal other than to have a savings. My husband is pursuing a PhD, so as of right now I am the breadwinner, and English majors were never meant to be breadwinners. Our income and savings while meager allows some travel and indulgences such as our two pound puppies and two indoor rabbits. I live in rural Mississippi, and I like to be anywhere else.

The Mis(sissippi) Adventures of a Born Again Saver:

Flashback: I am 8. My brother is 16. I have saved $81 over a year from sweeping the house, washing the bathroom walls, scrubbing love bugs from the mini-van bumper, vacuuming my dad’s cigarette ashes from the Dodge, and raking and bagging pine needles throughout the fall. My brother has come to me to ask for a loan.

Just $20, he asks. I say sure, but there will be interest.

Upon learning my rates, he declines.

Unfortunately, I’ve since relented on holding on to my money so dearly. My big goal in 2009, after paying for the wedding, was to pay off my student loans before they accrued interest. I succeeded in that goal, a major accomplishment that has (so far) granted me a debt free life.

But without any medium term goals, my savings drive has idled. Where I was once able to save money quickly for the wedding and for the loans, growth in my account balances is now far less impressive. With no debt, what’s to keep me from driving to Birmingham, Alabama and spending $1000 in all the glorious stores that don’t exist in the stark Mississippi town I live in? Nothing, apparently. I don’t care too much for my job, and I feel I should be rewarded, and reward myself I do.

But that is about to change.

I just signed our electronic tax return for 2009 last night. I knew we’d get some back, but I’m still used to the tiny returns I got from making 8k a year as a graduate assistant. Whenever a big check comes in, I always wonder what to do with it. Previous projects have been: my Nikon D60 including two lenses, 4 wisdom teeth extractions, the trip to D.C., and (of course) student loan debt.

This year? The whole check will go into my savings where it will sit until I hear back from Sewanee Writer’s Conference. If I get in, a portion will go toward that. If I don’t, it goes toward my first NYC trip. (Actually, I’m going to NYC regardless.) However, I will NOT spend all of my refund. I hope to keep at least half of it in my savings account.

Hope is the key word. Sewanee is $1700. How poets afford a $1700 conference, I’ll never know. I guess they depend on office jobs (like me), don’t have cable (like me), don’t have iPods or an iPhone (like me), and drive older cars (like me).

I’m certainly not deprived. Living in rural Mississippi has infected me with the travel bug. Last year, I think I spent at least 25 weekends out of town, which makes saving money more difficult. If I had stayed in town a few more weekends, I could have easily tripled my savings from last year, so this year my goal is to travel less and save more. I get awfully bored down on the farm. I start craving Pho, Pad Thai, and all sorts of delicious ethnic food I can’t get here, and before I know it I’m gassing up and heading to Memphis, Birmingham, Atlanta, or New Orleans and shopping the whole way.

This weekend I’m headed to Georgia, and I’m debating stopping in Atlanta.

I know I don’t need to go, but H&M, Trader Joe’s, and the giant Asian market are calling me. The biggest problem I have without having debt is I have little stopping me from spending money when the occasion arrives. I need to get in touch with my inner 8 year old and hang on to my money. I hope this keeps me honest.


Check out the stories from our other Customer Bloggers: Matt, Nancy, T.J., Susan and Alison.

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  • Alicia

    @Sherrilyn. That’s so cute. Yes, my parents were great to start me earning and saving and spending my own money. It really teaches you something. Thanks for your story!

    @ Medici. It’s so easy to let good habits go. I’m lucky that I just relented a little but still saved somewhat, just not as much as I know I could and should. Though it’s amazing once I decided to make that a priority again, it’s so easy. Good luck with you.

    @ Lumos. Thanks! I am definitely frugal but I don’t mind. I have everything I need and lots of things I just want. That’s pretty awesome.

    @ Andre. Being positive about what you have, your finances, and your debt are the only options. It’s there. Deal with it. Best of luck to you. Thanks for commenting.

    @ Mike. When I was in graduate school, I listened to Dave Ramsey all the time. He definitely reinforced my beliefs and practices. I love the people yelling that they are debt free. I love how he tells them to buy an older car. I’m definitely going to do that next time we need one. In cash. I don’t want car payments. I don’t need a total money makeover, but I’m glad someone out there is popular and telling people they need to stop buying and living debt is a choice they don’t have to make. I can’t wait to move. My choice city for our long term city is so much closer to our parents and where we grew up. One thing I don’t care for Starkville is it’s 4 hours away from our parents and not close to any major airports so it’s expensive to fly.

    @ Ruth. Haha all that over a toaster and blender. That’s intense. Confession: my husband was putting away my new breadmaker (it was free via a friend on facebook) and he found a toaster he apparently didn’t know we had. It’s been in the cabinet since I got a toaster oven, but I never got rid of it. I night need it sometime I guess. I don’t just have tendencies to hoard money. I hoard all types of things. Thanks for the comment.

    @MM.

    @ Wow retired at 45? That’s amazing. I like that concept of paying yourself first. You owe it to yourself after all.

    @ Debbie. My friend is involved in couch surfing and he’s actually moving out to Cali after this summer. My big plan is once my husband graduates, we’re going to take a big celebration trip and drive from MS to the Monterey Bay aquarium (I’ve been obsessed with it since seeing a pbs show on it). We’ve got a few friends along the way and plan to do some camping, but adding couch surfing to that trip is a great idea. It will be my first trip out est. Thanks for the comment.

    @ Deanna Foster. Happily ever after financially sounds pretty great. Thank you for the encouragement.

    @ E. Yes, save for trips and do some real travels, not like Disney World, but explore a city together. I really recommend DC since I loved it so much and it has so many free things to enjoy.

  • Karen

    I liked your writing. I think you may have a future as an author! If you feel the need to spend, why not sponsor a child through World Vision? It’s a way to spend monthly and use your writing talents. I love my six sponsored children like they were my grandchildren. They enjoy my letters, but not as much as I enjoy theirs. Good luck about the Sewannee Writer’s Conference.

  • http://www.jeffries.myzija.com Will Jeffries

    I commend you Alicia for your hard-earned efforts in maintaining you lifestyle of abundance. I was born and raised in Starkvegas, MS myself and love the city for it’s true hospitality and overalll goodness. I now live in Fayetteville, AR – NWA Arkansas Area – and I find, for myself, the more appreciative and grateful I am for all that I have in this life, the more I receive.

    So, all this to say, you are truly amazing for the feats you have accomplished at such an early age. I am right behind you at 27 years and fixin’ to turn 28 in May. Many thanks for your sharing and may you have a bless-ed year in 2010!!

    You go girl!

  • Karen Thomas

    Nice article from Alicia. I can relate to the need to save. Not having debt does make it easier to spend. I also am becoming more savings conscience since I have two boys that will be going to college SOON. Thank you for writing.

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    Good job on paying off you students loans and saving your money on a regular basis.
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  • maria in Cambridge, MA

    Alicia,
    Enjoyed your story, and congratulate you on the fantastic accomplishment of remaining debt free!
    However, I would encourage you to keep traveling – you sound like someone who is open to ideas and the world, and it can only make you wiser and your life and writing richer. Having a big savings account but living in a narrow world is not a great trade off. There must be a way to find equilibrium between financial prudence and quality of life, which includes personal growth. Admittedly traveling is not the only path to growth, but it can be such a powerful one.

  • Andrea

    Alicia, it’s so amusing that you were savvy enough to charge your little brother interest on his loan. Like you, I’m trying live debt free, save up for a wedding and accumulate some money for writing pursuits. I look forward to reading more from you.

  • Susan G.

    I am a saver and my husband is not so much of one. When we met I had debt but good credit. I added him to my cards, and we got a loan to pay off the cards and my car ( a stupid consolidation loan). We couldn’t pay that loan. After several yrs he got new cards. At first we paid the whole balance every month. Then he decided that we should use the credit card for everything and earn the rewards. Well we did and got into a lot of debt. We filed bankruptcy earlier this year. So remember to save and never get a consolidation loan. Be careful that your spouse agrees with you about not getting into debt !

  • brenda

    Alicia, you are a good writer and apparently a foodie! You seemed determined and focused and that’s exactly what you need to continue doing what you love to do, good luck and keep the good stories coming.

  • Teresa Rivers

    Girl, You got it going on! At 26, you’re smart as heck! I hope your husband shares your same financial savvy. Unfortunately for me, I married somebody who needed to justify himself with material possessions even when we couldn’t afford it. We’ve been separated for almost 4 years now. I’m slowly but surely getting back on track. Thanks for sharing your story.

  • Alicia

    @ Teresa Rivers. I’m very lucky to not have married a shopper, though he does end up wanting new computers, laptops, and other big purchase equipment. It’ll be easier to get him that stuff when he graduates. Congrats on getting your life back on track.

    @ brenda. Thanks! I am definitely a foodie. I love cooking, eating, and reading about cooking and eating. Haha.

    @ Susan G. Wow that’s crazy. Yeah credit cards are dangerous, but hopefully now it will be easier to make better choices as a couple.

    @ Andrea. He was my older brother by 8 years! There’s a lot of us writers on here. I guess we really have to think about savings until that book deal finally comes through.

    @ maria in Cambridge, MA. It’s definitely about finding that balance. I wasn’t in a bad place, but I was off balance with my travel to savings ratio. I feel really good about where I am now.

    @ Jimmie. Thanks for the comment. I’m a big believer in charities. The one I”m focusing on right now is funding classroom projects for teachers like getting basketballs for gym classes, paper for arts classes, and calculators for math classes.

    @ Karen Thomas. Two boys in college. I strongly recommend the credit card talk. I hope they are as savvy as you.

    @ Will Jeffries. Your mom (or aunt or other female maybe related to you) doesn’t work in Biochem does she? Thanks for the encouragement.

    @ Karen. That’s a great idea. I do love writing letters. I’ll have to see about getting involved in something like that.

  • http://WritersResort.com Gwyn Nichols

    Alicia, I enjoyed this for the writing itself. As one English major poet to another, I hope to see you become wildly appreciated as a writer.

  • http://InternetExplorer Cheryl N

    Next time you visit Birmingham, look into applying for a job there. Sure it will cost a lot more to live there but the wages will be a lot better there and you love the place. You will come out better financially, emotionally and time-wise. I did this going from the Ventura, California moving to San Diego for just those above reason.

  • Alicia

    @ Cheryl N. My husband has about two more years in his PhD. After that we’re hopefully off to wherever I get in for my PhD. Right now my top settle down city is New Orleans, a city I love, that’s close to family.

    @ Gwyn Nichols. Thanks so much. I’d take being a small college creative writing professor. I don’t want much. haha.

  • steh-fan

    Hi there,

    great blog! Would be nice to se a little bit more of Alicia’s face, though this is a very interesting picture~~!

  • Michael

    I would like to share with you some thoughts.
    1. People who love what they do and work even past retirement live longer, healthier and happier.
    - retirement at 45 won’t do you any good;
    2. People often buy things just to feel happier. The effect does not last long, so they need to buy again, and again, and again.
    - those who find happiness in buying things will always be “short of money” and stressed too;
    3. And last but not the least: don’t let youg kids watch TV, because it teaches them consumption and kill their brains.

    About us: I am a PhD scientist, my wife is a college student, we have two kids, no TV. We like outdoors and be active both phisically and mentally.

  • Alicia

    @ steh-fan. More photos are coming. Look for my next blog.

    @ Michael. I can’t wait to do what I love. I really feel like I’m wasting my talent and my degree just working in an office, but bills must be paid, and it’s only temporary. Right now we’re focusing on my husband finishing his PhD in Biochemistry, and when he’s done shortly, it’ll be my turn to either get my PhD in creative writing or work on animal nutrition so I can work at a zoo or rescue organization.

  • BrendaJ

    sounds like you are doing great. I do wish that I’d heard of Dave Ramsey sooner, but I got right on track and have bought my 3rd car that I paid cash for. It is such a rush. If you are looking for a way to cut back on travel without going stir crazy, consider trying to cook those things you miss yourself. It is rather satisfying to produce some delicacy with your own two hands. But rewarding yourself isn’t a bad thing. All things in moderation.

  • Marilyn Downing

    I love ING! My last comment was misunderstood.

  • Marilyn Downing

    I love ING! My last comment was misunderstood.

  • Karin

    Alicia,
    Love your writing style! You’ve managed to capture my attention about a topic that is, to me, lackluster! Like you, I am debt free (no credit card or revolving debt other than my mortgage of course!). I have one credit card which I use to pay all my utility bills and necessary purchases that I can pay off immediately within the month. I do this to gain reward points as I immediately make a payment within the week of the purchase as if I were paying the bills directly from my checking account. This has helped me to be very disciplined with my spending habits. Additionally, I gain reward points for using my amex and gain no interest on a balance since it’s paid before the cycle! Two birds, one stone!

    Like you, since i’m debt free, I have a few extra dollars that i’m always tempted to spend on travel (my passion) and the occasional cute shoes and handbags (fetish). However, I decided after paying my car off last year, I continued to put the car payments towards my savings. Acting as if i was still paying a debt except this time to myself! The funds are automaticially taken out of my ING savings. No reason to run out and get a new car as the one I have serves me fine and besides i’m finally FREE of a car loan now the savings go directly in my pocket; very rewarding might I add!! I plan to ride it until the wheels fall off”!!! I figured the extra savings can go towards what I really LOVE: TRAVELING and as you said “saving for no particular goal other than to have a savings” so I’ll be prepared when it is time to use it towards whatever goal I’ve set or a “rainy day”! Thanks for inspiring and keep writting!!

  • Marty

    Alicia,

    Wow! Congratulations on being debt free at 26. I wish more young people would adopt your philosophy.

    If you have money for travel, I recommend opening a Roth IRA account invested in either good stocks or good stock funds. Then put some money into the Roth every month. Pay yourself first. I have always been a saver, but when I retired, I still wished that I had bought fewer toys and saved more.

  • Randy T

    Michael, a PhD with such poor grammar skills? Yikes!

  • Alicia

    @ Marty. I have a Roth IRA. I opened it maybe a year ago. It was a big step for me to finally admit I need to start thinking about the big R.

    @ Karin. Wow I love that idea of continuing your car loan payment to yourself. That is so awesome because you’ve already learned to live within those means. Congrats to you.

    @ BrendaJ. Dave Ramsey does have some great advice. I really think financial education should be more a part of our primary curriculum.

  • Dorothy

    Who cares? I only read out of curiosity since I have 2 ING accounts. I do not understand why bloggers think what they have to say could be the least bit interesting.

  • Alicia

    @ Dorothy. I have two ING accounts as well. That’s why I entered the contest to be a customer blogger. I read other blogs and thought it was interesting ING wanted customers to blog. I think it’s a nice break up of financial advice and a glimpse into the real lives of people attempting to save and pay bills. I guess sorta reality programming for a financial blog. Of course it’s not for everyone, but I do appreciate you giving my blog a try and leaving a comment.

  • Alisa

    Alicia, I am 26 and have a BS degree with no student loans as well, but that’s only because my parents helped me pay for college. I ended up marrying someone who had 37k in student loans, and a bunch of other debt. We have paid some of his other debt off, but it has been slow. I want to know how the heck you paid off your student loans so quickly!! You must not have had very much. My mom finally offered to pay off my husband’s credit card (we paid off the other one ourselves) and we are paying her back at 3%. It’s better for us, obviously, and better for her too because she was earning less than 1% on her money. We are probably going to do the same thing with my husband’s motorcycle soon. After those things are paid off, THEN we can start saving tons of money. My husband wants to become a federal agent, and if he becomes one, then they will pay off his student loans, and we can be debt free except for our house. Sigh. I can’t wait for that day.

  • Alicia

    @ Alisa. You’re right. I didn’t have very much though I had more than is in my savings now. Wow I do not envy your husband’s loan debt. I was lucky that my parents paid for my undergrad which I finished in 3 years and worked throughout summers and some during to make it easier on my parents because my mother was in college at the same time. I started community college classes a few weeks after graduation, and took summer classes every year and course overloads. One semester I took 22 hours. Cut out a year of tuition and housing saved a ton of money for everyone involved though my parents told me I didn’t have to do it. I just couldn’t stand costing them that money even if they promised if I made it to college, they’d find a way to pay for it, so I worked really hard to not cost them extra money and to do well and school and to finish ASAP which I did. I entered in fall 2001 and graduated in summer 2004.

    My student loan debt is from graduate school. I figured out how much I needed to live, to buy student insurance, to eat basically, to pay my rent, and my tuition and I took out the least amount of loan possible. I did this for three years and finished one masters degree and got over halfway through on another including a study abroad trip to Spain for a month. As a teaching assistant in English and then French, I made very little money and took out enough loans to make ends meet. When it became clear my husband would need more time than originally anticipated on his PhD, I stopped being a full time student because I was getting to a point with my loans I was no longer comfortable. I took an office job that had tuition benefits that I could take classes for free on campus. Since I was halfway through with my second masters, I figured I could finish it casually for free while I worked (though I admit working 40 hours a week while taking graduate level classes is hard). When I started getting a real check, I deposited money every time in anticipation for paying off my loans. I told myself if I lived on less than 10k (including my loans) for the last three years, there is no reason I can’t pay off these loans in two years and pay for a wedding. I was right. There was no reason I couldn’t do that. So I did it. My money was committed to those two causes and nothing came before them. One of the proudest moments in my life thus far was writing one large check to pay off my loans before I received the first bill. Just as happy as I was paying cash for everything for the wedding.

    Good luck with paying off your debt. In my next post I talk about specific things I do to reduce expenses to allow myself money for shopping, travel, and savings.

  • Michael

    I decided against ROTH in favour of the traditional IRA. In this century I expect to retiree at lower tax brackets, so my overall savings will be definitely higher with traditional IRA.

  • Michael

    Today (April 14, 2010) I read in the news this: “To foster the recovery, Bernanke and other Fed officials have repeatedly pledged to hold interest rates at record lows for an “extended period.” The hope is that low rates will entice people and businesses to spend more, generating enough economic activity to help keep the recovery going.”
    Does this mean that savers are acting against the recovery? :) Or is there something wrong overall in using “consumer confidence index” as a measure of the economic health of the society?

  • Alicia

    @ Michael, I went with the Roth because I plan on us making more when we retire. Right now my husband is on a student’s stipend and I work a basic office job. I figure paying the taxes on it now will work out better for us vs when we both have incredibly successful academic and research careers. haha.

  • okamura

    You mention a lack of medium term goals. May I suggest the following:
    - pay yourself a car payment, set the money aside so that when your car needs to be replaced (not repaired, replaced) you have the cash in hand to do it. If you don’t have a car, set a goal to budget a reasonable amount to go towards one for when you do.
    - build up cash reserves. Set a goal to have 9 months living expenses in the bank
    - save for a down payment on a house, start looking for a house and goal 20% + 10% closing costs. Admittedly, a house may be a long term goal.
    - lastly, look for investments that might have a decent enough return and be safe (such as US Government bonds) to be able to invest cash towards “retirement” IE, start investing enough such that the dividends would cover regular expenses.
    - We are like you. When I married, I married debt. We were both in college at the time. By the time we graduated though, we had paid off all the debt, paid for school and paid for major surgery without accruing more debt. We also had enough to buy a used car, which we still use nearly a decade later. Because of the “car payment” we have enough to pay for a replacement when it finally breaks down beyond reasonable repair (which it came close to a few years ago). We’ve paid off a small house (unfortunately, too small) and have almost recovered our savings to the above mentioned levels. Next: find a reasonable sized house we can afford and save the money to buy it. After that goal: “retirement” as mentioned above. Although barring a miracle, both those goals will take a while to realize….

  • Machineman

    Interesting! I envy you for weekend trips and your life in rurals.

  • jg

    Alicia maybe if you invest some of that savings on cooking classes you wont have to go to New Orleans every weekend for ethnic food and if you havent made it to New York yet I can give you a few restaraunts to try without breaking the bank.

    Jim

  • Mack Brown

    Very nice job.
    Uncle Mack

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